{"id":195652,"date":"2024-06-03T17:51:02","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T15:51:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/?p=195652"},"modified":"2024-06-03T17:53:01","modified_gmt":"2024-06-03T15:53:01","slug":"psychonauts-chodit-s-niekym-manual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/blog\/the-psychonauts-dating-manual\/","title":{"rendered":"Psychonautova pr\u00edru\u010dka na randenie"},"content":{"rendered":"

Existuje mnoho p\u00e1rov, ktor\u00e9 sa spojili kv\u00f4li u\u017e\u00edvaniu psychedel\u00edk. Psychonauts<\/a> maj\u00fa tendenciu n\u00e1js\u0165 jeden druh\u00e9ho; pri\u0165ahuje ich zmysel pre dobrodru\u017estvo, duchovnos\u0165 a otvorenos\u0165. Pre mnoh\u00e9 p\u00e1ry m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 spolo\u010dn\u00e9 cestovanie jedn\u00fdm z najhlb\u0161\u00edch, najl\u00e1skyplnej\u0161\u00edch a najspojuj\u00facej\u0161\u00edch z\u00e1\u017eitkov, ktor\u00fd posil\u0148uje ich int\u00edmne spojenie a dokonca pom\u00e1ha rie\u0161i\u0165 pr\u00edpadn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my v re\u00e1lnom vz\u0165ahu. Ak v\u0161ak v\u00e1\u0161 potenci\u00e1lny partner psychedelik\u00e1 neu\u017e\u00edva, nemalo by to by\u0165 prek\u00e1\u017ekou.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ke\u010f sa s niek\u00fdm za\u010d\u00edname zoznamova\u0165, m\u00e1me tendenciu uk\u00e1za\u0165 \u010do \"najnorm\u00e1lnej\u0161iu\" a najpr\u00edjemnej\u0161iu verziu seba sam\u00e9ho. Vyzdvihujeme svoje dobr\u00e9 vlastnosti a st\u00ed\u0161ime tie zl\u00e9. A hoci psychedelik\u00e1 (ako magick\u00e9 huby) <\/em>s\u00fa \u010doraz popul\u00e1rnej\u0161ie a prijatie<\/a>, nie v\u0161etci s\u00fa e\u0161te na palube. Mo\u017eno vyrastali na tom, \u017ee im hovorili, \u017ee s\u00fa nebezpe\u010dn\u00ed, degenerovan\u00ed a desiv\u00ed. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee ak u\u017e neviete, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 partner m\u00e1 drogy, mo\u017eno budete chcie\u0165 t\u00fato t\u00e9mu otvori\u0165 s ur\u010ditou d\u00e1vkou citlivosti pri ich spozn\u00e1van\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V tejto pr\u00edru\u010dke sa budeme venova\u0165 t\u00e9me u\u017e\u00edvania psychedel\u00edk vo vz\u0165ahoch, \u010di u\u017e osobne, alebo v jednej z mnoh\u00fdch zoznamovac\u00edch aplik\u00e1ci\u00ed. (ktor\u00e9 tu nebudeme menova\u0165!). <\/em>Budeme tie\u017e sk\u00fama\u0165, ako sa orientova\u0165 vo vz\u0165ahu s niek\u00fdm, kto psychedelik\u00e1 neza\u017eil alebo nem\u00e1 z\u00e1ujem \u010di t\u00fa\u017ebu ich vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165. Ka\u017ed\u00fd je na svojej vlastnej ceste a je k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e9 pristupova\u0165 ku ka\u017ed\u00e9mu individu\u00e1lnemu poh\u013eadu s re\u0161pektom, \u010di u\u017e d\u00fafate v romantiku, alebo nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ako predstavi\u0165 t\u00e9mu psychedelick\u00fdch l\u00e1tok <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

V s\u00fa\u010dasnom popul\u00e1rnom diskurze nie je t\u00e9ma psychedel\u00edk nikdy tak \u010faleko. Na str\u00e1nke . psychedelick\u00e1 renesancia <\/em>obnovila z\u00e1ujem o ich terapeutick\u00fd potenci\u00e1l<\/a>, kampane pre legaliz\u00e1cia<\/a> rast\u00fa ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148 a vy sa nem\u00f4\u017eete pohn\u00fa\u0165 pre celebrity<\/a> \"prizn\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee v skuto\u010dnosti miluj\u00fa huby. <\/em>To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee nie je vyl\u00fa\u010den\u00e9, \u017ee sa t\u00e1to t\u00e9ma alebo nie\u010do s \u0148ou s\u00favisiace m\u00f4\u017ee prirodzene objavi\u0165. Napriek tomu to pre niektor\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 st\u00e1le p\u00e1l\u010divou t\u00e9mou rozhovoru.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak niekto nemal pr\u00edstup k psychedelik\u00e1m alebo ich nemohol s\u00e1m vysk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165, m\u00f4\u017ee ma\u0165 k ich u\u017e\u00edvaniu negat\u00edvny postoj. V z\u00e1vislosti od ich v\u00fdchovy alebo sk\u00fasenost\u00ed si ich m\u00f4\u017eu sp\u00e1ja\u0165 s nezodpovednos\u0165ou, sebade\u0161trukciou alebo nedostatkom re\u0161pektu k z\u00e1konu. Nemusia pozna\u0165 v\u00fdhody psychedel\u00edk, a preto ich h\u00e1d\u017eu do jedn\u00e9ho vreca s in\u00fdmi neleg\u00e1lnymi drogami, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa v skuto\u010dnosti \u0161kodliv\u00e9. Nem\u00f4\u017eete vedie\u0165 sk\u00f4r, ako t\u00fato t\u00e9mu predstav\u00edte, ako na \u0148u bude niekto reagova\u0165. Ak je v\u0161ak u\u017e\u00edvanie psychedel\u00edk d\u00f4le\u017eitou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou v\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivotn\u00e9ho \u0161t\u00fdlu, v ur\u010ditom okamihu na to nevyhnutne pr\u00edde re\u010d. Ako sa teda o tom dozviete?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160itie v\u00fdtrusov psychedelick\u00e9ho chatu<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Ako sme u\u017e spomenuli, niekedy m\u00f4\u017ee t\u00e9ma vznikn\u00fa\u0165 organicky. Ak nie, st\u00e1le existuj\u00fa neform\u00e1lne sp\u00f4soby, ako ju m\u00f4\u017eete do rozhovoru vnies\u0165 bez toho, aby ste ju museli vnucova\u0165. Napr\u00edklad pri rozhovore o m\u00e9di\u00e1ch, ako s\u00fa va\u0161e ob\u013e\u00faben\u00e9 telev\u00edzne programy, filmy, knihy, podcasty at\u010f. m\u00f4\u017eete nadhodi\u0165 nie\u010do s\u00favisiace s psyched\u00e9liou - Strach a odpor <\/em>alebo Fantastick\u00e9 huby <\/a>- <\/em>napr\u00edklad. Reakcia v\u00e1\u0161ho partnera a z nej vypl\u00fdvaj\u00face rozhovory m\u00f4\u017eu napoveda\u0165 o jeho postoji k psychedelik\u00e1m.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To, \u010di v\u00e1\u0161 partner m\u00e1 alebo nem\u00e1 sk\u00fasenosti s psychedelick\u00fdmi l\u00e1tkami, nie je tak\u00e9 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 ako to, ako sa c\u00edti va\u0161e <\/em>psychedelick\u00e9 pou\u017eitie. Neexistuje \u017eiadny ofici\u00e1lny \"spr\u00e1vny\" sp\u00f4sob u\u017e\u00edvania psychedel\u00edk - \u010di u\u017e ich pou\u017e\u00edvate na terapeutick\u00e9 alebo<\/em> rekrea\u010dn\u00e9 d\u00f4vody, \u010doko\u013evek sa v\u00e1m p\u00e1\u010di, je platn\u00e9. Napriek tomu, ak je niekto trochu neist\u00fd, mo\u017eno by ste mali za\u010da\u0165 t\u00fdm, \u017ee prediskutujete, \u010do ste z\u00edskali a \u010do ste sa nau\u010dili z u\u017e\u00edvania psychedel\u00edk. Nemus\u00edte \u00eds\u0165 pr\u00edli\u0161 do h\u013abky, najm\u00e4 na za\u010diatku vz\u0165ahu. Niektor\u00e9 psychedelick\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa intenz\u00edvne osobn\u00e9 a duchovn\u00e9 odhalenia, o ktor\u00e9 sa mo\u017eno budete chcie\u0165 podeli\u0165 a\u017e nesk\u00f4r.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Kedy je ten spr\u00e1vny \u010das za\u010da\u0165 s psychedelick\u00fdmi l\u00e1tkami?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia nosia svoj odznak psychonauta hrdo a nahlas na zoznamovac\u00edch aplik\u00e1ci\u00e1ch a uv\u00e1dzaj\u00fa ho vo svojom \u017eivotopise. Je to jednoduch\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako da\u0165 \u013eu\u010fom hne\u010f na za\u010diatku najavo, \u017ee je to jedna z va\u0161ich v\u00e1\u0161n\u00ed. Takisto to okam\u017eite odfiltruje ka\u017ed\u00e9ho, kto je nie <\/em>do psychedelick\u00fdch l\u00e1tok. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pre niektor\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed to v\u0161ak nemus\u00ed by\u0165 nie\u010do, \u010do by ste chceli odhali\u0165 tak skoro. Psychedelik\u00e1 m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 pre v\u00e1s neuverite\u013ene d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, ale mo\u017eno si ne\u017eel\u00e1te, aby ste sa nimi definovali alebo aby ste sa do nich pustili po hlave. Oba pr\u00edstupy s\u00fa \u00faplne platn\u00e9. Ten druh\u00fd v\u0161ak znamen\u00e1, \u017ee v ur\u010ditom okamihu budete musie\u0165 na to upozorni\u0165 sami. Najlep\u0161ie je pok\u00fasi\u0165 sa o to sk\u00f4r, ne\u017e za\u010dnete \"chyta\u0165 city\" alebo sa vytvor\u00ed v\u00e1\u017eny vz\u0165ah. Sk\u00f4r ne\u017e sa veci preh\u013abia, chcete zisti\u0165, \u010di s\u00fa va\u0161e \u017eivotn\u00e9 \u0161t\u00fdly kompatibiln\u00e9, a to aj do bud\u00facnosti.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010co ak v\u00e1\u0161 partner nie je \"na\" psychedelik\u00e1ch? <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00daspe\u0161n\u00fd vz\u0165ah by nemal z\u00e1visie\u0165 od toho, \u010di m\u00e1te \u00faplne rovnak\u00e9 z\u00e1ujmy. To, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 partner nie je \"na\" psychedelik\u00e1ch, by samo o sebe nemalo by\u0165 d\u00f4vodom na rozchod. Je \u00faplne pravdepodobn\u00e9, \u017ee aj keby ste chodili s in\u00fdm psychedelikom, mohli by ste by\u0165 nekompatibiln\u00ed z nespo\u010detn\u00fdch in\u00fdch d\u00f4vodov. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako re\u0161pektova\u0165 odli\u0161n\u00e9 n\u00e1zory a stanovi\u0165 hranice<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Re\u0161pektovanie hran\u00edc je pri vz\u0165ahu s \u010dlovekom, na ktorom v\u00e1m z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9. Mo\u017eno u\u017e v minulosti vysk\u00fa\u0161ali psychedelik\u00e1, mali s nimi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fa sk\u00fasenos\u0165 a z nejak\u00e9ho d\u00f4vodu sa k nim u\u017e nechc\u00fa vr\u00e1ti\u0165. Mo\u017eno ich u\u017e vysk\u00fa\u0161ali, ale u\u017e o ne nemaj\u00fa z\u00e1ujem. Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia sa im vyh\u00fdbaj\u00fa kv\u00f4li minul\u00fdm alebo s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00fdm probl\u00e9mom s du\u0161evn\u00fdm zdrav\u00edm. In\u00ed sa m\u00f4\u017eu ob\u00e1va\u0165 \"straty kontroly\". Nie je ni\u010d zl\u00e9 ani na tom, ak jednoducho nec\u00edtite t\u00fa\u017ebu experimentova\u0165 s psychedel\u00edkmi. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee \u010dlovek nie je otvoren\u00fd alebo duchovne zalo\u017een\u00fd. Existuje mnoho in\u00fdch sp\u00f4sobov, ako sk\u00fama\u0165 vedomie. Potenci\u00e1lne by ste sa pri otvoren\u00fdch a \u00faprimn\u00fdch rozhovoroch mohli u\u010di\u0165 jeden od druh\u00e9ho.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ako psychonaut v\u0161ak nie je va\u0161ou \u00falohou sna\u017ei\u0165 sa presved\u010di\u0165 partnera, aby s\u00e1m vysk\u00fa\u0161al psychedelik\u00e1. Iste, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 zvedav\u00fd a \u010dasom mo\u017eno bude chcie\u0165 experimentova\u0165; ale ak to neurob\u00ed, nie je va\u0161ou \u00falohou zmeni\u0165 jeho n\u00e1zor. Je v poriadku, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 romantick\u00fd partner a va\u0161i kamar\u00e1ti na tripe s\u00fa odli\u0161n\u00ed \u013eudia.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee sa mus\u00edte dohodn\u00fa\u0165 na hraniciach pou\u017e\u00edvania psychedel\u00edk vo va\u0161om vz\u0165ahu. Nevadilo by v\u00e1\u0161mu partnerovi, keby ste trippovali v jeho spolo\u010dnosti? Bolo by mu pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 vzia\u0165 si opatrovate\u013eka na v\u00fdlete<\/a> \u00falohu? Ak \u00e1no a tento koncept je pre nich nov\u00fd, musia sa dozvedie\u0165, \u010do to bude znamena\u0165. Uprednostnili by, keby ste i\u0161li na v\u00fdlet niekam inam, napr\u00edklad k priate\u013eom? O v\u0161etk\u00fdch t\u00fdchto veciach je potrebn\u00e9 diskutova\u0165, aby ste si stanovili hranice, s ktor\u00fdmi budete obaja spokojn\u00ed.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako sa zozn\u00e1mi\u0165 s kolegami psychonautmi pre priate\u013estvo alebo romantiku<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00da\u010das\u0165 na podujatiach a predn\u00e1\u0161kach o psychedelik\u00e1ch je k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, ako spozna\u0165 podobne zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eaj\u00facich \u013eud\u00ed. Ak sa prihl\u00e1site do po\u0161tov\u00fdch zoznamov r\u00f4znych medzin\u00e1rodn\u00fdch a miestnych psychedelick\u00fdch spolo\u010dnost\u00ed, m\u00f4\u017eete ma\u0165 preh\u013ead o tom, \u010do sa deje vo va\u0161om okol\u00ed. Podobne je to aj s festivalmi, \u00fastraniami a konferenciami. Tie nemusia by\u0165 vyslovene psychedelick\u00e9 - existuje mnoho pr\u00edbuzn\u00fdch t\u00e9m, ktor\u00e9 by mohli pril\u00e1ka\u0165 psychedelick\u00fdch fan\u00fa\u0161ikov, napr\u00edklad spiritualita, joga<\/a> a medit\u00e1cia<\/a>, psychedelick\u00e1 hudba, mykol\u00f3gia<\/a>, at\u010f. Zapojenie sa do facebookov\u00fdch skup\u00edn a in\u00fdch online spolo\u010dnost\u00ed je tie\u017e jednoduch\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako si n\u00e1js\u0165 skupinu spriaznen\u00fdch du\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Samozrejme, m\u00f4\u017eete si to trochu zjednodu\u0161i\u0165 t\u00fdm, \u017ee v \u017eivotopise v zoznamke ozn\u00e1mite svoje psychedelick\u00e9 sklony a vyh\u013ead\u00e1te ostatn\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed ich maj\u00fa tie\u017e. Publikum pre psychedelick\u00e9 zoznamovanie ur\u010dite existuje. Str\u00e1nka Psychedelick\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165<\/a> v Spojenom kr\u00e1\u013eovstve v minulosti organizovala zoznamovacie podujatia, ako napr. Pomal\u00e9 zoznamovanie online: Intimn\u00e9 spojenie pre nezadan\u00fdch psychedelikov. <\/em>Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia sa dokonca vyslovili za vytvorenie zoznamovacej aplik\u00e1cie \u0161peci\u00e1lne pre slobodn\u00fdch psychonautov, tak\u017ee sledujte tento priestor...<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nakoniec, \u010di u\u017e n\u00e1jdete l\u00e1sku s kolegom psychonautom, niek\u00fdm psychedelicky zvedav\u00fdm alebo aspo\u0148 podporuj\u00facim va\u0161e vlastn\u00e9 psychedelick\u00e9 sna\u017eenie, najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00edmi vlastnos\u0165ami s\u00fa \u00faprimnos\u0165, l\u00e1skavos\u0165 a otvoren\u00e1 myse\u013e. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hra na rande m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1. Aj ke\u010f sa na prv\u00fd poh\u013ead zd\u00e1, \u017ee sme v\u0161etci \u010d\u00edtali rovnak\u00e9 pravidl\u00e1, ka\u017ed\u00fd hr\u00e1 trochu inak. \u010casto chceme urobi\u0165 dobr\u00fd prv\u00fd dojem a z\u00e1rove\u0148 spozna\u0165 potenci\u00e1lneho partnera. To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee sa podel\u00edme o svoje z\u00e1ujmy a n\u00e1jdeme spolo\u010dn\u00e9 \u010drty. Pre psychonautov to, samozrejme, znamen\u00e1 psychedelick\u00e9 l\u00e1tky.\u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":195669,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[70,69],"tags":[],"topics":[],"class_list":["post-195652","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-howtos","category-psychedelic-culture"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195652","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=195652"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195652\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":195680,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/195652\/revisions\/195680"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/195669"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=195652"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=195652"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=195652"},{"taxonomy":"topics","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wholecelium.com\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topics?post=195652"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}